Added a gallery
The site was looking a little bland, so we added a gallery to liven things up a little. At the moment they’re just random family pictures, but they do give some idea as to how things were when the Yusof children were young.
The site was looking a little bland, so we added a gallery to liven things up a little. At the moment they’re just random family pictures, but they do give some idea as to how things were when the Yusof children were young.
April 9th, 2008 at 3:06 pm
SAYA PASTI AYAH KAMU TELAH DIANIYA KERAJAAN BRITAIN SAMPAI TERPAKSA NGAKU & MASUK PENJARA YANG AKHIRNYA SUFIAH PULAK BERONTAK JADI…
YANG SIMPATI,
+60128624623
April 9th, 2008 at 4:32 pm
Now, where the hell did you get that?
April 9th, 2008 at 6:09 pm
Salam MAL(+60128624623),
Saya tak sokong K’jaan mana2.
Cuma saya nak tau kenapa sdra. MAL berfikir bahwa En Yusof kena aniya?.
Ingin saya ketengahkan bahawa cara berfikir orang Malaysia berbeza dgn warga british.
Ini bermakna sdra. MAL perlu ketengahkan bukti yang menyokong pendapat sdra., hujah yang bersifat dengar-cakap (hear-say) tidak berapa sesuai utk digunakan.
Terima kasih.
hamdi
April 9th, 2008 at 10:07 pm
Saya sokong pendpt en hamdi,jika seseorang pernh tinggal di UK,pasti bersetuju dgn anda sb kerajaan sini amat tegas dlm soal undang2,tidak kira bangsa asing atau bangsa sendiri-walaupun undang2 sekecil mana,mereka pasti patuhi,cuba lihat mengenai cara mereka memandu di sini,pasti berbeza dgn msia.bukan bermakna msia itu teruk tp dr segi undang2 ,saya fikir UK lagi bgus.Itu belum termasuk syarat menghantar anak ke sekolah,ke klinik dan sebagainya.
Semoga saudara faham MAL apa ulasan saya-tidak bermakna ulasan anda salah,mungkin anda tidak pernh tinggal di UK atau pernah-tapi itulah hakikatnya pemikiran org amat tegas mengenai undang2.
Maafkn saya jika ulasan saya ini menyakitkn hati anda.
April 10th, 2008 at 1:03 am
Saya agak setuju dengan saudara MAL. Mengikuti kisah kehidupan keluarga ini, mereka mengamalkan kehidupan cara hidup Islam.Puan Halimaton dan keluarga banyakkan solat hajat,sekiranya Farooq dianiaya,minta kebenaran terserlah juga.
April 10th, 2008 at 3:03 am
Salam…
Tak perlu kita menuding jari mencari salah siapa. Yang benar tetap benar dan yang salah tetap salah. Sebagai manusia biasa, kita tak dapat lari dari melakukan kesilapan dan semestinya pelaku kesalahan akan menanggung akibatnya.
Yang perlu kita lakukan sekarang ialah sama-sama berdoa agar individu yang telah tersalah memilih jalan diberi petunjuk. InsyaAllah.
April 10th, 2008 at 3:14 am
I don’t agree with Mal’s comments and have the same opinion with Ameena and Mahmood. BTW, there’s a big difference between Princess Diana and Farooq and the impact they have on the country/politics/monarchy/people.
Sufiah is a woman now..and we can’t blame anyone else on what is happening to her, but we can’t stop praying and hoping that one day she will go back to the family or at least back to her right senses. Pn Halimahton is an amazing woman and the rest of her children are excellent as well especially by being the pillers of strength to their mom. Keep it up! We, Muslims, can’t blame others ALL the time when things happened - to a certain extend, ALL human are the same despite the faith we are holding. It is how we handle/manage the challenges/temptations that set the difference between a wise and unwise man.
April 10th, 2008 at 4:09 am
Dear Sufiah,
I happen to be a mother of 4 lovely boys.
If you read this , I would like you to know that I am with you and that you are not alone . Deep down inside I sense the deep anger and hurt you have towards all that has happened to you.
Bismillahirrahmaanirrahim means , In the Name of Allah, the Most Beneficient (Forgiving) the Most Merciful.
May you find a little, a tiny room in your heart to forgive those who have wronged you and may you heal that hurt by reaching out, one step at a time, to those who have really loved and cared for you all this while.
Take care.
Love,
Auntie Zuhairah
Malaysia
April 10th, 2008 at 5:43 am
terima kasih kpd yg menyokong pendpt sy & tahziah plk utk pembangkang… tragedi wtc kat us smua tahu ianya konspirasi yahudi. di britain tmpt pangkalan mrk ketiga slps israel & amerika. jd, sendiri fhmlah… konsep sama sperti singapore, anything women lbh dipentingkan. jika tiada bukti lelaki x cbl, hbslah dlm lokap temasik.
yg pernah bertgs di SG & tinggal kat mara hostel, 37 leinster sq, LONDON W2 4NQ.
ym sy - dokter_ria
April 10th, 2008 at 8:24 am
I’m touched to tears after reading email from zahairah to halimaton.
she’s right we are with u and i’m a mother too and i know hoe you felt.this is not the end of the world and please don’t stop praying for sufiah to go back to the right path and repent.
April 10th, 2008 at 9:15 am
She’s already on a wrong way… she got her own brain to judge which is rite and which is wrong.. why must others KASIHAN her…
April 10th, 2008 at 9:36 am
Salam…
Semoga Sufiah dan keluarga dapat bersatu semula dan mulakan hidup yang baru. Ambilah iktibar daripada apa yang berlaku. Sesungguhnya, setiap masalah pasti ada jalan penyelesaiannya.
April 10th, 2008 at 10:41 am
Let’s pray for the best…AMIN
April 10th, 2008 at 10:44 am
I really felt much hurt about Sufiah’s unhealthy acts and leaving her lovely mother and siblings. I hope she will go back to her family and have a happy life just like in those photos posted in the gallery. It hurts to see your family breaking-up and going different way. May God Bless Halimahton’s family.
April 10th, 2008 at 11:08 am
my heart feel sank when i first read the news from internet last week.
May God bless you and the whole family. I hope Sufiah will finally think what is right and wrong in what ever she’s doing.
to the mother and family, i am sure it’s a great challenge to face this situation. Just remember that God is always with you. Keep pray for the best.
April 10th, 2008 at 11:12 am
apalah rakyat malaysia nie. hampir nak msk 24 jam tp x rmai pun yg nak tulis blog kat akak halimah kt nie. ramai yg tau blog ini stlh saksikan tv3 hmpr 9 mlm. tinggal 3 jam lagi tp msh bwh 1 rts. sbrkanlah. kan skrg dah ada hp utk sms & internet bg email!
yg bnr,
http://hanief.blogspot.com @ 0123418737 & nikmatnya@hotmail.com
April 10th, 2008 at 12:13 pm
Pn Halimathon,
You must have a very strong personality to handle this situation and I just hope you daughter had that trait. After reading the media report about your daughter, one thing is obvious. this whole episode is highlighted because Sofia is academically smart, a genius (?), unfortunately she is not smart enough to face the real world. Or maybe if she indeed do what she is doing to retaliate to her father then she is not really smart, to deal with a situation.
April 10th, 2008 at 12:23 pm
semoga Allah membalas segera segala fitnah2 media terhadap keluarga puan…
moga puan tabah selalu…
April 10th, 2008 at 12:32 pm
salam alaik…
semoge makcik halimatoon sekeluarge berjaye menghadapi dugaan dengan sabar dan tabah….setiap yang berlaku ade hikmah disebaliknya…
InsyaALLAh Sufiyah akan kembali ke landasan yang benar suatu hari nnanti….cuma masa yang menentukan
April 10th, 2008 at 1:23 pm
sofiah honey… please return to your mom.. please return to your family…they miss you so muchh……they love u no matter what..and i love u to..i’m not very good in inglish..but i do hope u can understand…please sofia sayang……return to your family….
April 10th, 2008 at 7:26 pm
MAL,
Pls SHUT up yr mouth.
Buat malu budak MARA Hostel je. Mengarut lebih awak nih.
April 11th, 2008 at 2:14 am
Assalamualaikum.
Dear Pn Halimathon,
I believed that you are a strong woman especially in facing these kind of test from Allah swt. Ingatlah bahawa Allah akan sentiasa membantu jika kita selalu ingat kepadaNya. Saya harap Adik Sufiah akan kembali ke jalan yang benar. This is a great challenge to everyone in your family. Saya akan sentiasa mendokan agar Adik Sufiah selamat dan bertaubat sebelum terlambat. God is always with you & semoga Puan selalu tabah okay.
April 11th, 2008 at 2:31 am
Mal,
Kamu ini adalah satu contoh bagus sebagai seorang yang berfikiran sesat. Saya kasihan kpd keluarga kamu. Saya harap mereka atau rakan2 kamu dapat mendorong dan menunjukkan anda kearah yang benar sebelum terlewat.
Moga di Mesia tidak ramailah orang seperti mu. Buat malu kpd negara tercinta saya.
April 11th, 2008 at 3:28 am
if her husband is not wrong he won’t b in jail…being alone in other people’s country is not ez.i hope we all pray hard together 4 sufiah 2 open her heart n return 2 her rite path n her family..
April 11th, 2008 at 3:52 am
salam,
semoga keluarga yusof tabah dlm ape jua keadaan…
biar ape orang nak kata….
ALLAH maha kaya dan maha menyetahui…
lebih dlm agama kiter lebih dalam juga dugaan untuk kiter..
tanpa berfikir kiter slalu leka dan dan terlalu taksub..terutama bile ada yang menghasut kiter..
masih belum terlambat untuk sufiya balik kepangkal jalan…marilah kiter sama2 berdoa dan jgn terlalu berserah kepada takdir kerana takdir boleh berubah dgn adanya usaha kiter…
yang lain, beringatlah jgn menaburkan fitnah kerana kt belum tahu hukuman diakhirat….
islam semua bersaudara..tak kisah walau kiter dimana…islam tetap diperjuangkan..
April 11th, 2008 at 4:19 am
heran betul dengan MAL, apa masalah dia ni, dah la ada masalah lagi besar, ditempelkan pulak dengan ,masalah pemikiran dia….heran…heran…
Pn. Halimathon….ceria selalu
April 11th, 2008 at 4:46 am
Saya salute dgn ketabahan puah Halimah menghadapi kemelut ini. Sejambang mawar merah untuk puan……………..
April 11th, 2008 at 8:20 am
I don’t wanna be like sufiah BUT I do wanna be like her siblings. I mean it. You’re strong aunt. Keep it. You’re the name on everyone’s lips. It’s because of your strength, talent, thoughts and patience of course. Hope everything will be going fine. InsyaAllah. May Allah bless you always.
-Greetings from Malaysia.
April 11th, 2008 at 2:34 pm
assalamualaikum wbt
In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious The most Merciful
I’m a daughter to a mom, but I am not a mom yet. When I watched the news about you, I was so touched with Pn Halimaton’s loving words “when I read the news, I performed solah, and I prayed that Allah will touch Sufi’s heart. I hope that Sufi will choose what best for her”. It is the wisdom and a very warm and caring words from a mom. I almost burst into tears, that a mom, will accept her daughter as she is.
ANd that reminds me of the warmth love from Allah. We make mistakes, and yet He always give us the chances to repent. And He will always accept our repent. He loves us more than a mom’s love to her children. He knows us better than ourselves, and He is the closest to us if we are in despair.
And I remember that He loves and He always care for as sabiruun. Dear, aunty and the whole family, please be patient. The support and the du’a will always be with you. I beleive, that you are a strong woman, and I pray to Him that He will guide you and the whole family in everything …
Dear adik Sufiah, yang kusayangi, percayalah, doa kami bersamamu adikku sayang. Marilah bersama kami merasakan kebahagiaan sebenar yang kami rasakan sekarang. Adik, besar harapan kami agar kita sama-sama dapat menjadi bidadari syurga di sana… Adikku, kakakku ini mendoakanmu.
To every Muslims, please stop blamming.. I remembered, Saidina Umar was promised as one of the martyr, he was promised that he will be in the jannah with our beloved prophet and his companions. But do we realize, he was the person who was against Islam. He was the one, who really wanted to kill our Prophet saw, and he was the person, who slapped his own sister just because she recited the wholy Quran..But that was a turning point of him…When he was a Muslim, he cried, when he remembered all the mistakes that he did, and after that he laughed, and he said ” O My Lord, Thank You for guding me to Thou”
So dear Muslims, maybe one day, Allah will touch Sufi’s heart, and she might be a much better Muslim than us..Who knows rite?
May Allah guide us..
Isbirii ya aunty..Isbiri..
Be patient dear aunty..
May Allah bless you
Diyana
Kubang Kerian, Kelantan..
April 11th, 2008 at 2:45 pm
hey.. I was wondering.. How come all the pics when your children are still kids? What about their adolescent age? I don’t know how old are your kids actually but I’m beginning to doubt this.. I don’t why some people get angry over cases like “going freethinker”.. In Islamic govern by our prophet, it has been said that YOU HAVE FREEDOM TO CHOOSE YOUR RELIGION.. Yeah, sure it was inappropiate for a muslim to go freethinker.. But then, why get angry? What happened to advices and supervisions? If she still won’t listen, then it is not yours to handle anymore.. Let her deal with God herself.. Even in Malaysia, it’s like most of MALAY females are naked everywhere (tight clothings, no tudungs, and even revealing clothes).. Some of our ministers aren’t doing a good job as an example as well.. So why should u guys care about stuff that happened outside Malaysia when you should be worrying about things that happened in Malaysia instead?
April 12th, 2008 at 5:07 am
Hi Syam,
The main reason most of the pictures show us as little kids is that we wanted to show what the family was like before my dad was around. Don’t worry, we’ll be uploading more recent pictures in due course.
Concerning the rest of your post… well, we’re not angry, and I agree that ultimately Sufiah has to make her own decisions regarding what she wants to do with her life.
Regards,
Iskander
April 12th, 2008 at 4:23 pm
salam,
saya terpanggil dgn komen2 yang sy baca di sini..pada pendapat saya, sufiah sudah dewasa dan punya keluarga. sy yakin keluarga sufiah pasti cuba utk membawa sufiah ke pangkal jalan. kita d sini tidak perlu menuding jari mencari salah siapa..kerana bg sy, sufiah sudah boleh fikir sendiri dan perlukan bimbingan. Apa yang dibimbangkan ialah ada dalang yg cuba mengeksploitasikan isu agama dgn mempergunakan sufiah..
sufiah dear, please get back to ur mother.
April 12th, 2008 at 4:31 pm
I agree with Syam. I think we are all busy body lah. More worse things are happening here in KL and Msia
Hope Sufiah will be reunited with her family soon!
April 13th, 2008 at 11:04 am
Dear Sufiah,
Life is not really a bed of roses and you know that!
you know the conviction and the consciousness in you tells you that, despite of some glamour time….there are but lies!
You feel so empty!
Wake up today….mum is there for you and the multitutes are praying real hard for your safety, for your right choices.
on top of all, mum loves you so much!
think of all she had gone through,
the pain, the worries, the anxieties. the sacrifices.
Now listen, despite the circumstances…the journey you are going through..
make a u-turn.
give the media, give the world a big shock..Sufiah is back on the fold!
can you do that, I assure you your life will be so meningful and happy!
warm cheers to Halimathan and kids and Dad too!
April 13th, 2008 at 2:49 pm
dear iskander,
i hope that u’ll create the WAP blog too so people who use handphone @ celullar can contribute their opinion to your mobile blog & not just online 1 as nowadays people tend to use 3G or GPRS at least.
very easy to create. just go to http://tagtag.com asap & it’s FREE 2!
b4 i’m leaving, plz do a MALAY version to your current family blog due to majority of malaysia still not really understand what u’ve said. i think malay in UK will help u esp. the student there @ malay association.
best regards,
from KSMU
RUSSIA
April 13th, 2008 at 3:39 pm
Dear halimahton & children,
(saya ingatkan puan dan diri saya sendiri. Saya ada 10 org anak2 yang semuanya masih belajar di M’sia)
Semua org akan mati. Allah tak tanya berapa panjang ijazah yang kita ada, berapa genious anak2 kita dalam akademik. Jadi, tak guna kita glamor dengan kejayaan akademik anak2 kita. Yang Allah swt akan tanya nanti ialah apakah amalan kita semasa di dunia ini mengikut sunnah kekasihnya rasulullullah saw atau tidak. Kembalilah kp Islam yang sebenar. Hidupkan sunnah dalam rumah2 kita. Bacalah Quran dan hadith tiap2 malam (sebelum tidor) kp anak2 kita. Quran adalah ubat segala penyakit jasmani, rohani maupun mental. lebih baik kita didik anak2 kita jadi hafiz Quran daripada jadi genious matematik. Akademik adalah KEPERLUAN hidup kita dan bukannya TUJUAN hidup kita.
So, send your son Iskandar & Abraham to Jamat Tabligh in East London Mosque, Christian Street to enjoin the Muslim Dakwah group to learn more about the teachings of true Islam. Dont talk bad about your hubby. He is your children’s father. Forgive him and Allah will have mercy on you and children. Allah will answer your prayer insyaAllah.
p/s……i used to live in the UK with hubby and my 7 children doing my masters degree at Hull Univesity sometime in 1998. pls respon/ email whenever u r free. I’m always willing to listen to you. Lots of luv and DOAs from me, hubby and children.
April 13th, 2008 at 3:52 pm
Syam, no matter in Malaysia or not, when there is an opportunity to write goodness and truth, just do. Information is contagious, infect truth.
Time and space is a canvas for our colorful life. Time define awareness and space define distance. No matter how far you are from anywhere, its your awareness to paint the beautiful picture of life.
Caroline, I second you. Though it is purely human feelings and true human sense, there is no religious flavour being added. Nice angle to persuade her. I agree with you..
Sufiah, if you are reading this, I know you still have your right sense. We love you, thats why we care and we write…
April 13th, 2008 at 7:24 pm
Salam berhormat bagi keluarga Yusof..and tomost of all to dear Iskander..thank you so much for allowing us to voice our opinions and tell it like it is. If anyone who speaks English, and listen to what Sufiah is saying..they can get the picture..she’s very contempt and happy to what she’s doing. Happiness is very difficult to achieve in these tough times we’re experiencing in this world, and having Sufiah reached a pinnacle of happiness means so much from all of us. We as the Malay people from Semenanjung Malaysia voiced our opinions how we felt about Sufiah, and got slapped right and left from some the postings that has been crude, and not credit worthy to speak of behalf of the Malay people. We are not here projecting any negative elements, and if Iskander is censoring all the postings and deemed something unworthy..I’m sure he’d have deleted the posting to begin with, but in the fairness to everyone we’re so thankful our voice can be heard in hearts and soul of many who has the same perception as what most of us think..which is HAPPINESS. Iskander you’ve been exposed to a different cultural experience, and most probably will have good firm understanding from the posting what we meant HAPPINESS, in which some of our Malay breathen don’t seems to be on even keel. Nonetheless we pray from the bottom of our heart to baginda rasulallah to have their hearts open, and not be so close minded, and say things that is not very pleasant. We support the good cause this blog has been set aside for everything, and the feels about the Yusof family, and most of all we feel so much obliged to have our opinions voiced. Once again we love all of you and particularly Sufiah we love you the most. Please maintain a slender body Sufiah, because, in the nature of work you’ve undertaken..skinny body means alot for potential clients. You all live in the UK and you all know what is good be skinny and not to be obese. On the final note..we hope Mrs, Halimah Ton Yusof brings something so positive to be on BBC to tell all the Brits alike what life has been trapped with a mentally unstable human being for so many years.
April 14th, 2008 at 4:14 am
salam,
MAL, what the hell is ur problem? Siap membanggakan diri lagi tu. Rasulullah dah bagi tauladan kat kita, apabila org lain ditimpa musibah, bersimpati lah and tolong apa yg boleh. WALAU APA PUN YG SI MALANG TU BUAT. Yg kau sibuk cerita psl teori kau apehal?
Tak kira lah Auntie Halimahtun benar atau salah, termasuk x ajar anak dia ckp malay - atau bapak dia dianiaya atau tak, hanya ALLAh yg tahu. Auntie Halimatun dh kawen lama dgn laki dia, dia lagi tau laki dia tu jahat atau baik! Walaupun Muslim, tak semestinye baik. paham? Tak yah tgk org tu arab atau pakistan, cukuplah tgk org melayu kite ni. berapa ramai yg jd bapak haruan? Yg penting skrg nih kite doa Sufiah balik ke pangkal jalan, n mcm ex-husband ckp, “ada limit utk seseorg tu menyalahkan masa silamnye” sbb Allah bg kite akal n panduan. Kalau tergelincir sekalipun kembali lah ke pangkal jalan.
To Mal, cukuplah memalukan islam & Melayu. Kalau betul (God knows) pon bapak bapak dia kene aniaya, dis is not the place to spread ur ideas!
April 14th, 2008 at 5:05 am
melayu tulen tu bukan melayu tulen, orang melayu takkan guna nickname tulen, tu cam zaman 60 an.. ni mesti non-melayu saja2 mainkan stupid posting.
most posting by him/her is rubbish,
April 14th, 2008 at 9:33 am
hye guys….
to, mrs hamilton…
i hope that u and ur children tough enough facing Sufiah issues…
and to all yg ada bg support kat atas ini walaupun mostly x membina..
mcm tu la bangsa melayu…asyik nak menundingkan jari sesama sendiri..
cuba lah jangan sibuk ngan hal org…lantak la Sufiah tu nak jadi apa…
yg tanggung dosa bukan korang kan??? cuba korang buat kerja yang boleh membanggakan msia drpd buat benda tak berfaedah mcm tue…
April 14th, 2008 at 12:28 pm
What’s ur problem Joe? Nak suruh orang jadi macam nabi tapi perangai sendiri macam babi.
April 14th, 2008 at 2:49 pm
sister halimah, you cannot simply live your husband. be like our former deputy prime minister, anwar ibrahim. to nite his nite 14 april, black monday.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOO9YnYULK0
his wife very good. always help him even her hubby being prison by former prime minster.
do you undersatand what i;m saying? if not, go to hell then, NOW!
April 14th, 2008 at 2:50 pm
sister halimah, you cannot simply leave your husband just like that. be like our former deputy prime minister, anwar ibrahim. to nite his nite 14 april, black monday.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOO9YnYULK0
his wife very good. always help him even her hubby being prison by former prime minster.
do you undersatand what i;m saying? if not, go to hell then, NOW!
April 14th, 2008 at 4:33 pm
Hi Iskander,
I guess you had never expected that this is happening; the adverse remarks by some idiotic users. My sympathy to you and your family. I don’t know why it has turned out this way. My advice is that is best that you close this blog, before it gets infected further from such parasites.
But prior to that, allow me to give my piece to them.
Beware of that insidious disease known as ‘negativitis’ (negative thinking). It is as pervasive as the common cold, but far more damaging. It mutilates, cripples, and corrodes the human spirit. Those infected by it like Joe, jang, Melayu Tulen, handsome and other parasites alike are broken men and women aimlessly plodding along. The dark clouds brooding over them obscure their vision and cause them to become confrontational, apathetic, and cynical. Their lives are like flat champagne, without any sizzle. So, how do they inoculate themselves against such a harmful disease? It was only after learning about the horrible effects of smoking that people began to give it up. It may be wise for them to do the same here. HEY GUYS, try reviewing the effects of negativities.
Complaining is worse than doing nothing, for it is digging the rut one is in deeper and deeper. Each time YOU complain, it becomes increasingly difficult to climb out of the ditch YOU’VE created. To loosen the grip of this vicious habit, YOU need to become aware of YOUR complaining, stop it in its tracks, and immediately look for something positive to say. It’s just a matter of replacing a bad habit with a good one.
A negative attitude is self-defeating. YOU won’t find solutions to life’s problems by looking for someone or something to blame. Those who say, “Positive thinking doesn’t work for me,” have got it backwards. It’s not positive thinking that has to work; YOU have to work. For example, YOU have to work at appreciating what YOU have instead of moaning about what you lack.
One characteristic of negative thinkers like YOURSELF is YOUR need to have the world behave according to YOUR wishes. YOU have never grown up and still live with childish demands. Whenever people and the world fail to act according to YOUR selfish wishes, YOU are unhappy. Such a poisonous attitude prevents YOU from growing and learning how to cope with life’s challenges.
Another adverse effect of negativity is that it sets one up for the magic-bullet-syndrome. That is, the victim of ‘negativitis’ spends their time looking for a quick, easy fix, when none exists. By denying a fundamental law of life that states anything worthwhile requires effort to achieve, YOU achieve nothing. YOU won’t make progress until YOU realize that nothing in life is free. YOU’VE got to be willing to do what it takes to get what YOU want.
Also, beware of the fact that negative people like YOU GUYS attract other complainers. Because those who live in a world of doom and gloom alienate others, they have no choice but to look for other negative people to associate with. YOU then feed off one another and get locked in a clique of losers.
Additionally, YOU not only harm YOURSELF; YOU harm the world. YOU cease to make a contribution to it. Instead of helping, YOU spread gloom and misery everywhere. If YOU insist on infecting others, why not infect YOURSELF with laughter? If YOU must carry something contagious, why not carry a smile?
So, I guess people like Melayu Tulen, Joe, jang, handsome and other parasites alike should contemplate on some makeover. YOU GUYS sure do have to clock more mileage in order to catch up with the lost time. Aren’t YOU GUYS aware that YOU are in time tunnel.
Zai – Kota Singa
April 15th, 2008 at 4:21 am
Saya sekampung dengan Puan halimatoon di Kg. Tg. gading, Muar dan saya tau puan berasal keluarga yang baik dan berpegang teguh kepada ajaran Allah. Saya bersimpati dengan nasib yang menimpa puan. Anyway semoga puan tabah menghadapi dugaan Allah dan semoga Sufi kembali kepada puan semula dengan mengikut ajaran Allah. Saya cuma nak beri pendapat agar puan dapat meneruskan hidup puan sekeluarga di Malaysia pula khususnya di Muar kerana di Malaysia puan boleh hidup dengan aman.
April 15th, 2008 at 5:36 am
Pn. Halimathon,
Berat mata kami memandang, hanya Allah sahaja yang tahu beratnya puan memikul cabaran ini…Semoga puan sentiasa tenang,tabah dan bersabar.
“Wahai jiwa-jiwa yang tenang, jangan sekali-kali kamu mencuba menjadi tuhan dengan mengadili dan menghakimi. Bahawasanya kamu memang tak punya daya dan upaya, serta kekuatan untuk menentukan kebenaran yang sejati.”
Doa kami mengiringi puan sekeluarga. Amin
April 15th, 2008 at 5:47 am
Dear all…
I just hope those parasites stop yourself from idiotic attitudes…Listen to this:
“Wahai orang-orang yang beriman!Jika datang kepada kamu sesuatu berita,maka selidikilah kebenarannya,supaya kami tidak menimpakan sesuatu kaum dengan perkara yang tidak diingini dengan sebab kejahilan kamu (mengenainya) sehingga menjadikan kamu menyesali apa yang kamu lakukan.: (Al-Quran,Al-Hujurat (49):6)
April 15th, 2008 at 2:21 pm
hye to all n esp keluarga yusof
saya antara jutaan rakyat malaysia yang terkejut dengan berita mengenai sufiah..saya seusia sufiah dan sehingga hari ni saya tak terpikir yang begitu jauh langkah sufiah selepas ape yang menimpa diri dia lewat tahun dulu..bermula dari dia diterima masok ke oxford pada usia yang sangat muda dan menjadi kebanggaan semua tapi ia belum memberi makna apa2 selagi ape yang dia ada tak menghasilkan sesuatu yang luar biasa dimata kita yang melihat dia sebagai genius.dia melarikan diri kerana tekanan seterusnya berkahwin pada usia muda..saya mmg mengjangkakan sufiah akan membuat kejutan lain tetapi tidak menyangka kejutan ini sangat dasyat.
saya tak merasa ini salah puan mendidik sufiah cume ape yang dia lakukan sekarang mmg pilihan dia..mungkin pada mulanya dia kesempitan wang tetapi sekarang dia seperti enjoy dengan apa yang dia telah lakukan.
harap puan sekeluarga banyak berdoa agar dia diberi peluang oleh Allah untuk kembali pada jalan yang benar..Allah maha penyayang..saya pasti Allah mendengar setiap rintihan puan sekeluarga..sufiah akan sedar apa yang dia buat ni salah jika musibah menimpa..tetapi kita minta dia dijauhkan dari segala musibah kerana family dia sangat mengharapkan kepulangan dia. pihak barat akan sentiasa mengeksplotasikan sufiah of course demi keuntungan dan menghina agama Islam..harapan saya agar sufiah sedar dia adalah mangsa exploitasi barat..dan anda sekelurga jangan berhenti berdoa..God always by ur side..just remember that
April 16th, 2008 at 1:57 am
what happen to soo-fi is…desperateion…with the c.card and room rental burden… to me…she got her ego…and try to solve all this problem without..asking fammily help..
lonely…sad… sex leasure need.. no money… credit card… room rental…
study….all this play in her mind …to tell truth..soo-fi fed up already with all the burden and she need a platform to run away from it…
but the platform that she choose are wrong… but… please dont blame her….i think let us give a time to let her to think…what she’s doing right now can ruin her life and damage her health…
to..the family try to contact soo-fi…but please dont blame her…. and tell soo-fi..that we all still love u…
April 17th, 2008 at 10:05 am
Semoga Pn diberikan kekuatan untuk berhadapan dgn ujian ini.
Kepada Sufiah, pintu rahmat Allah masih luas terbuka.Kembalilah ke pangkal jalan..
April 17th, 2008 at 10:11 am
Assalamualaikum
Dearest Pn Halimahton,
Our prayers and hopes are with you as well as your family
Salam,
mamanur
ipoh
April 17th, 2008 at 4:23 pm
salam kak halimah,
sabar je la..
its good bila kakak dan anak2 wujudkan blog ni utk clarify bad things that media dah huha huha ke seantero dunia ni..
tp yg saya rasa kurang best bila kakak mengata suami sendiri.. ya, kami semua dah tahu keburukan dia dan kesal kerana ini semua terjadi ke atas kakak yg sebangsa seagama sewarganegara dgn kami.. tapi sbg isteri, buruk dan busuk macamana pun tak perlulah kakak warwarkan dalam blog.. saya cadangkan cukuplah sekadar kakak bersihkan nama diri sendiri dan anak2 kakak tanpa perlu memburukkan nama bapak kandung mereka..
renungilah kisah seorang anak pada zaman Nabi Musa a.s yg mempunyai ibu dan bapak yg ditukarkan Allah SWT menjadi babi.. tetapi dia masih menjaga mereka dgn baik, kerana katanya, hukuman ditukarkan menjadi babi adalah antara ibubapanya dgn Allah SWT.. tetapi dia sbg anak tetap terus menunaikan tanggungjawabnya..
Allah SWT mewahyukan kepada Nabi Musa, ”Inilah orang yang akan menjadi temanmu di syurga nanti. Hal ini tidak lain kerana baktinya yang amat tinggi kepada kedua orang tuanya.”
syurga anak di bawah telapak kaki ibu.. syurga isteri di bawah telapak kaki suami.. kakak layak menuntut fasakh.. teruskanlah demi kebaikan anak2.. mereka tentu memahami..
elakkan terus menjadi ‘mangsa’ utk mendapatkan ‘ganjaran’.. kakak dan anak2 berhak bertanggungjawab ke atas masa depan yg bakal mendatang..
Wallahualam..
April 17th, 2008 at 6:01 pm
Assalamu’alaikum..
Alhamdulillah, there are a new hope here..
http://sufiahyusof.blogspot.com/
We also can support sufiah with make our donation for “Love Sufiah” campaign in http://www.melayu.org.uk/
Lets together make a lot of doa to help our sister, Sufiah..
May Allah help us..
Allahummansurna ummata Muhammadin s.a.w..
…………………….
Segala puji bagi Allah, ada bibit2 harapan baru untuk bantu sufiah di sini
http://sufiahyusof.blogspot.com/
Kita juga boleh sama-sama membantu sufiah dengan membuat sedikit derma untuk kempen “Love Sufiah” di http://www.melayu.org.uk/
Jom sama-sama berdoa untuk bantu saudara kita, sufiah..
Moga Allah bantu kita..
Wahai Allah.. Bantulah kami, demi nisbah kami sebagai ummat kekasihMu s.a.w..
April 19th, 2008 at 11:27 pm
I couldn’t understand some parts of this article Added a gallery, but I guess I just need to check some more resources regarding this, because it sounds interesting.
April 21st, 2008 at 2:18 am
i love all photos! so cute!
April 23rd, 2008 at 3:19 pm
Time will heal and you need to be strong mentally. Nobody can make us feel sad, inadequate, inferior or in a nutshell, all that is negative unless we allow it. Halimahton you are an amazing lady! My heart goes out to you.
April 24th, 2008 at 5:54 pm
i’ve known sufiah indirectly since i was 8 yrs old..that time my family n i were still in uk.. masa tu,mak saya ckp ada sorang bdk ni dari malysia dpt msk u tym umur 13 thn. saya dpt bygkn yg bdk tu mmg power n hebat ‘gler’.. n i made her my idol..
so, sepuluh thn kemudian, bile ramai kwn2 sy confius n bising2 mngata sufiah-knapa nak tlg dia..sufiah ni siapa..ramai lagi rakyat malaysia yg perlu ditolong,pedulikan dia..sy cuma mampu diam.. even though my idol has chosen her own stupid n wrong path.. i cant help saying that she (though isnt innocent) should not be completely at fault….ntah,pandangn saya jer…