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Ada beberapa orang yang menyatakan tentang kesusahan membaca ruangan Pembetulan Semua Salahfahaman. Kami bersetuju dengan pendapat mereka. Olih itu kami siarkan ruangan pendik tentang soalan soalan yang sering ditanya dan kami harap ini lebih senang difahami. Namun demikian cubalah baca pos tersebut sebab banyak mengandungi butir butir yang mendalam.
Keluarga kami ingin mengucapkan ribuan terima kasih kepada semua masyarakat Malaysia diatas sokongan, fahaman dan segala nasihat yang bermanfaat.
April 10th, 2008 at 3:44 pm
Assalamu’alaikum..
Malaysian and Muslims, lets together make a special prayer and doa for this family..We are brothers..A Muslim should help his brothers as best as we can..
Remember how Allah try prophet Yusuf a.s in his life..
We hope yusof’s family can take a lot of learning from the story of Yusuf a.s.
Be patient in this test.
Surah al-fatihah is a meaningfull surah..
lets pray from the deep of our heart..
In the name of God, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful.
Praise be to God, the Lord of the Universe.
The Most Merciful, the Ever Merciful.
King of the Day of Judgment.
You alone we worship, and You alone we ask for help.
Guide us to the straight path, The path of those whom you have blessed, not of those who have deserved anger, nor of those who stray.
Amin..
April 10th, 2008 at 5:26 pm
assalamualaikum..
sy harap keluarga yusof tabah dan cekal harungi segala rintangan ini.
sy amat berminat utk mgetahui dgn lebih lanjut tentang perkembangan sufiah di sana. sy berharap website ini akn mendedahkan maklumat tentangnya dgn detail dari masa ke masa..sy doakan smoga dia dibuka pintu hati utk bertaubat.secara jujurnya, sy dpt merasakan bhwa sufiah bkn sengaja mahu terlibat dlm kancah maksiat itu, mungkin ade pencetusnya.
kepada sume muslimin dan muslimat, marilah kita sama2 berdoa smoga sufiah kembali ke pangkal jalan.jgn asyik mgutuk je tanpa mgambil sebarang langkah utk perbetulkan keadaan.
sekian.
April 10th, 2008 at 7:37 pm
Dear Pn Halimahton,
You are a very strong woman. Please hang on in there. Our prayers are with you.
Anggaplah kes Sufiah ini dugaan dari Allah buat Puan sekeluarga. Have faith in Him. Doa ibu InsyaAllah akan termakbul. Just keep on praying for the best.
Just ignore those baseless negative comments in this blog. Some people just simply don’t have manners.
Take care.
April 10th, 2008 at 9:43 pm
The press made things up? Sue them! What about what Iskander is reported to have said, about Farooq punching them kids in the face in the middle of the night to wake them up and the kids being made to study in the cold?
April 10th, 2008 at 10:13 pm
assalamualaikum.
hope sufiah can get back to being a gud muslim. a pity she turned out that way.
but enuf of that. she’s her own person after all. but as a family you must not neglect one of ur own. a family is a family through thick and thin. have faith.
with all the media frenzy, i sincerely hope u guys are doing alright. hang in there!!
April 10th, 2008 at 10:56 pm
Hi tikki,
I didn’t say that. I know what you’re referring to, though, and my brother Abraham says he was misquoted by the Telegraph. This is why we’ve turned down all further requests for interviews from them even though they’re pretty persistent.
The whole “cold” thing is utter nonsense and always has been. Our old house *was* cold, but it was just impossible to keep the place warm even though we installed a new boiler and used fan heaters all the time. Some reporter a long time ago asked about the cold, and my dad joked that it made it easier to concentrate when studying. Which was pretty stupid of him, but you’d think that a reporter would be able to tell the difference between a joke and a fact…
As for suing the press, we don’t have the time or money to waste on a protracted legal battle. The British media does this kind of thing to public figures all the time, anyway, so you tend to get used to it if you live over here.
Regards,
Iskander
P.S. Please keep in mind that this isn’t just my mum’s blog — it’s the *family* blog, which means that everyone mentioned in the “About Us” section contributes to each post, and of course we all have to agree on the content beforehand. So that’s one mum and four children.
April 11th, 2008 at 1:50 am
Iskander, thank you for this blog because I too had only read what the media potrayed and I apologies for that. As a former journalist, I can understand why people are so fed up with the media at times. It would not be news if it is just ordinary so they need to jazz things up a bit. The tabloids especially take great pride in this. But when the tables are turned and the spotlights are on them they won’t like it either.
Have faith, keep together and let the strength of your love as a family bring Sufiah home. Salam from Malaysia and Malaysians.
April 11th, 2008 at 2:24 am
Salaams - looks like the press reports have been untrue after reading your website.
A very good move on your side to ensure Sufia does not become a role model. This is a concern for all parents after reading Sufia’s new found life and how she enjoying it.
Hope she sees the light and repents.
We are with you and pray for Allah (SWT) to make things easy for you through these tough times.
April 11th, 2008 at 4:00 am
He ya Iskander,
Good answer there ( I used to stay in the UK for a number of years, and your comments about the boiler makes me smile..), keep up the good work and pls be with ur mum n family thru the ups and downs.
Life is never easy, you & your family have gone through too much hurdle, and I guess nothing could stop you lot from being stronger and stronger each day…
Good luck to all, mum n kids
April 11th, 2008 at 4:19 am
Assalamu’alaikum..
We are very pround with your family’s effort Iskander,
We hope that all Malaysian & Muslims have the same sprit as yours..
May Allah bless all of you..
April 11th, 2008 at 4:22 am
Assalamu’alaikum..
We are very pround with your family’s effort Iskander,
We hope that all Malaysian & Muslims have the same spirit as yours..
May Allah bless all of you..
April 11th, 2008 at 4:34 am
Assalamu’alaikum wrt,
Allah knows better. I have a feeling that your father has been slandered, but again, Allah knows better. Really hope Suffiah can be guided and come back to the right path & family. To the family, I pray you all will continously be strong. This is a test from Allah. Pray hard.
To Iskander, stay strong as you are the protector of the family. May Allah bless all of you…
Salam sayang dari Malaysia.
April 11th, 2008 at 5:41 am
How did you meet my fellow pakistani? Perhaps if you had married your own kind, some of the sad things like your daughter selling herself to every Tom, Dick & Harry amy have been avoided. I pray for you and your family. Allah guide you. As for others wanting to marry a pakistani, think carefully. Our ways (including sex life) are not always like yours.
April 11th, 2008 at 6:01 am
Asalamualaikum ww, kami di Singapura pun turut simpati akan dugaan yang dihadapi oleh keluarga anda. Banyak2 bersabar dan mohon pertolongan dari ALLAH SWT. Mari lah kita semua berdoa buat keluarga ini..agar di beri jalan keluar daripada kemelut ini………Aminnnnnn.
April 11th, 2008 at 8:03 am
Hi Halimahton, Abraham, Aisha, Iskander & Little Zuleikha,
What has happened is hard on everyone especially all of you, but please allow Sufiah to explain herself when she feels fit. I hope you lot have not abandoned her. This is one of the toughest moments in life a *child* can go through and her family is who she needs the most. Forgive her as she is one of you, as well as one of us. My prayers will always be with your family, upon the return of Sufiah and the unity of Mum and her 5 children:) Good luck, and God bless.
Yours truly,
Jodi.
April 11th, 2008 at 8:04 am
Hi Halimahton, Abraham, Aisha, Iskander & Little Zuleikha,
What has happened is hard on everyone especially all of you, but please allow Sufiah to explain herself when she feels fit. I hope you lot have not abandoned her. This is one of the toughest moments in life a *child* can go through and her family is who she needs the most. Forgive her as she is one of you, as well as one of us. My prayers will always be with your family, upon the return of Sufiah and the unity of Mum with her 5 children:) Good luck, and God bless.
Yours truly,
Jodi.
April 11th, 2008 at 8:46 am
“Allah Test Allah Love”
April 11th, 2008 at 8:54 am
Hi,
Assamualaikum, I agree with you Jodi.
Salam dari Brunei
April 11th, 2008 at 9:58 am
Be strong, Mdm Halimahton and the rest of the Yusof siblings. Do keep us updated. Hopefully Sufiah will be reunited with the family soon. Insyallah.
Regards,
Singaporean
April 11th, 2008 at 10:22 am
Be strong and patient in the face adversity is required of all muslims.Like it or not our life is full of it all the time.I do hope the family will be able to withstand all the difficulties and embarassment associated with the ongoing onslaught of your family’s integrity.Could u please inform me what the family is doing in regard of sufi, i mean have u all be able to contact her or her herself has spoken to you?tq
April 11th, 2008 at 1:47 pm
Untuk Puan Halimahton sekeluarga, saya mendoakan agar diberi lebih kekuatan menghadapi dugaan ini. Dugaan-dugaan besar hanya kepada manusia yang terpilih! InsyaAllah kebenaran akan tetap terserlah.
April 11th, 2008 at 4:41 pm
Assalamualaikum…
Terpanggil dgn situasi ini.. sedih, geram, terkilan semua ada.. Beginilah jadinya, kalu kehidupan keluarga dihimpit dgn skular semata2.. membelakangkan budaya bangsa..Kekdg sebagai ibu bapa, kita terlalu ghairah utk menjadikan ank2 ternama..
Perlu disedari (juga kpd diriku) semua manusia perlu membesar seimbang IQ=EQ.. Kebimbangan menghantui kita, apa akan terjadi kpd AdiPutra yg juga memasuki Universiti pada usia muda.. Semua ank geniues M’sia gagal menjadi ‘manusia’ berjasa.. amat memalukan dan mengecewakan.. Punca hanya satu, MEREKA TIDAK MERASAI KEHIDUPAN YG SEBENAR, TIDAK MELALUI PAHIT MANIS HIDUP PADA TAHAP YG SEPATUTNYA..
Sedarlah ibu bapa di luar sana (juga kpd diriku), psikologi ank2 perlu dibelai dan dipupuk, bukan dipaksa menjadi dewasa sebelum waktunya.. Maaf jika terlanjur kata, hanya memaparkan hati yg teruja..
April 11th, 2008 at 5:29 pm
b patient…
Allah r always with us…
may Allah bless u n ur family…
April 12th, 2008 at 5:23 am
Aslmkm…Puan sekeluarga…apa yang puan sekeluarga rasa adalah cubaan Allah kepada kita bagi menguji keimanan kita semua. Perkara yang sama pernah ramai orang alami, cuma tidak dibongkar secara eklusif…saya amat memahami parah dan lukanya hati di dalam membesarkan anak2..terutama anak perempuan….berdoalah tanpa henti untuk kebaikan keluarga…ambillah iktibar dari kisah nabi nuh dgn keluarganya dan nabi muhammad dgn bapa saudaranyer abi talib….hanya Allah yang dapat memberi petunjuk dan hidayah..kita hanya berusaha dan berdoa tanpa jemu…semoga puan sekeluarga mendapat rahmat dan keberkatan hidup…Wslm
April 12th, 2008 at 6:04 am
I think you should consider adding a chat box in your blog, that way, people can share their thought LIVE… without bordering to go through the comment box..
April 12th, 2008 at 12:08 pm
Assalamualaikum,
it’s fantastic idea to have this official blog. people outside there kept talking bad about ur family esp the “accelerated learning methods”,without knowing the TRUTH. they were all totally crapping n talking nonsense. i was quite surprised when i first heard about it, and just decided to accept it. but still, i want to know from primary source and thank god i found this blog.
for what happened to sufiah, a pity. as in my opinion, there must be a reason behind what has happened, sometimes bad thing happens first, then come out the right. people just realized they made mistake just when they experienced it themselves. or else, we would never know. people need time to change.
Hope Allah’s bless will always be with ur family~
insyaAllah~
trust in HIM
April 12th, 2008 at 4:09 pm
Kudos keep the web going! I love the truth and only the truth!
Halimathon you are genius!!!
April 12th, 2008 at 9:07 pm
Come back to Malaysia and we have teh tarik..
April 13th, 2008 at 3:31 am
Aslkm,
Dear Pn Halimahton,
You are a very strong woman. Our prayers are with you. A mom’s doa is very powerful.Keep on doa for Sufiah as she needed it badly.Have faith, keep together and let the strength of your love as a family bring Sufiah home. Sufiah will be back and repents Insyaallah.Thanks Iskander for clarifying those facts brought by the media.
Jang, I’m sure you are intelligent enough to figure out when to say things! Don’t u think the Yusof family has had enough stress at this moment in their life?Maybe you can try to be more sensitive and supportive instead!
Ishak, I like very much the thought and sincerity u have for Yusof family. I share the same thoughts with you.Muslims, lets together make a special prayer and doa for this family.
May Allah the merciful help this family and grant Mdm Halimaton her wish to have their old Sufiah back in their lives.Ameen.Al-Fateha.
April 13th, 2008 at 3:57 am
Salam,
Najibullah Khan, it is so sad to know a strong believer like yourself (as you have tried to project) is still doubtful that kismat(ie naseeb) and every other thing from marriage to a person’s death are all pre determined by Allah subahanallah taala.I believe anyone of us can be put thru such a test. Including you or me. Even if we are Pakistani. And in this case it is Mdm Halimathon which Allah has chosen.Shouldn’t we be kinder to those affected in any unfortunate circumstances.Isn’t that what Allah commands us to be?
April 13th, 2008 at 4:03 am
Well thts much better jang!! thnks for the effort and may Allah reward you for this kind act! Insyaalah.Ameen.
April 13th, 2008 at 6:29 am
Askm WW,
Puan Halimaton,
Anggap lah kesemua yang terjadi sebagai cabaran dari Allah. Bersabarlah, Puan. Pasti ada hikmah di sebalek semua ini. I trust all Singaporeans & Malaysians are behind you and your family.
Zai - kota singa
April 13th, 2008 at 6:46 am
Hi to everyone to the Yusof family,
Kami sebagai orang melayu dari semenanjung malaysia ingin mengcapkan beribuan terima kasih untok sumbangan dari keluarga Yusof ..dengan setakat itu..we’re so proud of Sufiah Yusof who is proudly proclaiming for who she is and what what she wants to do. We totally support her idea to have very high standards to become a social escort, nevertheless Ms. Yusof is one person that looks very pretty and beautiful both from inside and outside. Once again we pray to baginda rasulallah to give the blessings to Sufiah to become the most wonderful and and powerful social escort that she ever wants to be. We beg for rasulallah to shower the blessings of eternity towards Sufiah all the time to be healthy and wonderful, and be happy to whatever she wants to do. Once again we support her one hundred percent in her gainful effort to do something in her life, and we pray that she never stops from achieving her true objectives to become famous and powerful. She is very good, and please don’t stop hating her for what she wants to do. We as the Malay people truly support her, and to be seen in the purest form in corset carter belt and very beautiful outfits to every parts of this planet that baginda rasulallah had created. On the final note we love you Sufiah.. so please don’t stop th good work. Beribuan terima kasih for allowing us to voice our opinions.
April 13th, 2008 at 9:58 am
Well ‘Melayu Tulen’ may have his views, but it doesn’t mean that he has the license to represent the Malay’s views, as he claimed. I am not sure whether he’s truly a malay or …… it’s better to leave this to the malays in semenanjong. What do you think guys ?
Puan Halimathon,
Just ignore his/her views and consider it as one of the many left over mosquietoes - remnants.
Zai - Kota Singa
April 13th, 2008 at 10:36 am
salam , puan halimathon n family. i pray that you will continuously be strong and pls forgive Sufiah. im also a mother like you, we just have to keep praying for sufiah. May ALLAH bless you and your family,
amin,
yati from singapore
April 13th, 2008 at 11:22 am
“Melayu Tulen”.. I am just wondering if you are having problems on your own??
If you cant offer encoragements to Halimah and family, just shut up!!!
Zai
April 13th, 2008 at 2:03 pm
Zai, just ignore Melayu Tulen. I dont think he’s a Melayu or even Islam..because a Muslim will not offend his religion and Rasullullah..
April 13th, 2008 at 2:41 pm
please block jang’s entry,they are seriously not of any help at this point of time.
by the way, i pray that your family stay strong. Its when people expect you to crumble but u don’t that shows true strength.
may peace be upon you.
April 13th, 2008 at 2:50 pm
dear iskander,
i hope that u’ll create the WAP blog too so people who use handphone @ celullar can contribute their opinion to your mobile blog & not just online 1 as nowadays people tend to use 3G or GPRS at least.
very easy to create. just go to http://tagtag.com asap & it’s FREE 2!
b4 i’m leaving, plz do a MALAY version to your current family blog due to majority of malaysia still not really understand what u’ve said. i think malay in UK will help u esp. the student there @ malay association.
best regards,
from KSMU
RUSSIA
April 13th, 2008 at 3:18 pm
Dear Mdm Halimahton & children
Truly, I salute each & everyone of you for setting up this website. Instead of shutting yourself out of society, you decided to stand up & speak & set the records straight. Shame to those journalists who’s interest is just to sell their papers!
As a mother of two young children, I understand the unconditional love of a mother. And as a sister, I also know that if one of my siblings need help, I’ll try in every way I can. Sufiah is an adult and until she asked for help, there’s nothing anyone else in the family can do.
What we all can do tho’ is just pray for her. A mother’s doa is always heard, so insyallah, one day she’ll know whats right for her. Amen.
Sometimes, even with the best of love, care & concern, when kids dont turn out the way you want them to be, you just have to leave it in Allah’s hand. Mdm Halimah - you’ve done your best, and I’m sure all your children agree. Insyallah, everything will turn out just fine and many years from now, we will all look back and learn many lessons from today’s event.
April 13th, 2008 at 4:50 pm
Our life in this world is but a short journey. We are here on probation. Each and every one of us has to undergo various trials and tribulations, various successes and failures. That is life. It is important to bear in mind that we should remember God during good times and difficult times.
When we faced with afflictions and troubles, we take advice from the Quran and the Sunnah, and we pray to Allah (SWT), place our trust in Allah (SWT) and learn the fine art of sab’r (patience) ; When sab’r enters the heart, then the mind and heart are in balance, and the body takes on a new focus, a new determination, a new will to strive and persevere on seeking solutions to the problems that face us on an individual level, community level and global level.
With the tools of sab’r, persistence, perseverance, discipline and determination, life takes on new meaning and the problems that we face are taken into context with our accountability in the Hereafter. If we fail to use the tools that Allah (SWT) has given us, then surely we are lost.
Zai - Kota Singa
April 14th, 2008 at 1:58 am
Melayu Tulen:
“Once again we pray to baginda rasulallah to give the blessings to Sufiah to become the most wonderful and and powerful social escort that she ever wants to be.”
The Yusof Family create this blog to clear any misconceptions in which the media has been publishing all this while. We as fellow Muslim around the world should give mutual support and pray for them.
It’s so typical of people with limited mental capacity to leave such atrocious comment. There are people muslim and on-muslim (around the world) who are geniunely and wholeheartedly giving their moral support to them. By coming here to leave your paw-prints (you’re such a disgrace to the Melayu from the Semenanjung Malaysia), already shows how badly your mind works, which is totally zilch!
Singaporean
April 14th, 2008 at 3:42 am
bersabarlah wahai keluarga sufiah… doa kami semua dari malaysia sentiasa disisi anda…
April 14th, 2008 at 5:02 am
balik malaysia! kt sini sebagai umat islam, terpelihara & selamat. sayang anak2 akak yg bijak jadi mcm tu kat negara org. home sweet home akak
April 14th, 2008 at 5:19 am
i just wondering with your relatives in Malaysia?? do u still contact with them? i want to suggest your family to visit Malaysia.. come la..!! =)
April 14th, 2008 at 6:01 am
Puan,
Sesuatu yang berlaku ada hikmah disebaliknya, kita hendaklah sentiasa muhasabah diri kita sendiri dan fikir kenapa ia berlaku, mungkin kita ada buat sesuatu yang tak betul telah kita buat. InsyaAllah kita akan dapat jalan penyelesaiannya. Tuhan Maha adil dan Maha Penyayang lagi Maha Mengasihani. Amin
Salam.
April 14th, 2008 at 6:02 am
Assalamu’alaikum..
Ya Ayyuhal Muslimun..
Please remember of Allah..
The Khaliq that give our life.
Who are the Creator of us.
So, please Ittaqullah!
Ittaqullah!
Ittaqullah!
If just want to make a negative respond and joke, this is not a suitable time, situation, and place to you. Be serious please!
i just feel shocked with some un-responsibility comment, May Allah show them to the right path of His Way. If no hidayah of them, May Allah destroy them who din’t have a humanity sense in this situation.
O Allah, please forgive us..
Hope Iskender and family can delete the nonsenses responds. Thanks.
April 14th, 2008 at 8:42 am
Salam
Pn Halimahton, May Allah bless you and your children. As Malaysian Muslim Malay, I can convince you that we are always with you. Be strong and always have trust in Him. InsyaAllah everything will be fine.
To all honorable guests here, please ignore Melayu Tulen. He is not a Malay, and not a Muslim in the first place. You can judge from the way he write. So stupid, so silly and lot of nonsense!
April 14th, 2008 at 8:46 am
harap puan bersabar atas apa yang berlaku
April 14th, 2008 at 9:14 am
Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahhi Ta’ala Wabarakatuh,
Kepada Mak Cik Halimaton sekeluarga,
MakCik,
Pertama sekali ,izinkan saya perkenalkan serba sedikit tentang diri saya..saya remaja muslimah berusia dari Malaysia,usia saya xjauh dari anak makcik,Sufiah.Saya sebagai remaja xdinafikan byk keinginan yang saya nak buat..kalau sekiranya sesuatu keinginan saya itu di tentang,pasti saya akan memberontak..degil..akan buat juga..kalau tak buat di depan mak ayah saya,saya akan curi2 juga buat di belakang mereka tanpa memikirkan ada ‘kuasa’ yang melihat.
Itu kisah awal remaja saya.Kini saya suah meningkat 20 tahun dan sudah bergelar pelajar IPTA..secara jujurnya,semakin meningkat usia saya,fikiran saya semakin matang..saya mula muhasabah diri..saya cuba melawan nafsu syaitan yg sentiasa membisik di telinga saya..xdinafikan,kwn2 saya di sekeliling byk terjebak dgn benda xsihat..tp,saya cuba juga tahan diri saya..alhamdulillah
Mak Cik,
Saya paham..naluri makcik..sama seperti mama saya..saya sedih sangat apa yang berlaku ke atas makcik….saya nak sangat mak cik banyak2 sabar..saya sebak nak nangis bila tengok wajah makcik yang penuh ketenangan di berita aritu..banyak pengajaran yang saya dapat dari kisah anak makcik..makcik sabarlah..saya cuba bayangkan mama saya di tempat makcik..ya allahhh..
makcik,saya sentiasa doakan sufiah kembali kpd ALLAH, dan ke pangkuan makcik…Allah sayang makcik..itu sebab ALLAH uji makcik.Makcik bertuah kerana Allah telah memilih makcik utk menghadapi ujian seberat ni..makcik sabar,besar ganjarnnya..yakin ALLAH ada..DIA sayang makcik..saya nak sangat kak sufiah kembali kpd makcik..walaupun kita tiada hubungan,kita adalah saudara..sama dari Adam,Hawa..
MakCik,
kuat ye makcik..ramai sokong makcik di Malaysia…buat solat hajat..minta Sufiah tinggalkan semua ‘benda lagha’ ni..Moga ada hikmah di Malaysia..buka minda kepada anak muda di Malaysia,supaya jauhkan diri dari larangan ALLAH..jadikan pengajaran..SAYANGI ALLAH,IBUBAPA!!
SABAR MAKCIK…
SAYA SENTIASA DI BELAKANG MAKCIK..
daripada:-
SAYANGBABAMAMA
April 14th, 2008 at 10:06 am
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April 14th, 2008 at 10:09 am
plezz comeback to malaysia. kpd adik sufiah masih belum terlambat untuk bertaubat. jgn jadikan kisah silam sbgai punca semua ini. tolong muhasabah diri. tak mustahil one day sufiah juga akan menjadi seorang ibu. tolong faham perasaan your mom. kita sebagai anak sepatutnya meminta maaf kepada ibu bukan ibu yang patut minta maaf kpd anak. kpd untie halimaton n fmly. bersabarlah dgn apa yg berlaku. ada hikmah disebaliknya. sbgai ibu doa untielah yg paling mujarab untuk bwa sufiah kmbalike pangkal jalan. pless. jgn sedetik pun antie n family lupa pada Allah.. tabahlah untie menjamah getir ujian ini. teguhlah kalian terus berdiri demi sufiah. kerna kalian pasti mampu hadapinya. itu janji tuhan yang Esa. biar perih terasa. berimanlah ini terbaik utuk kalian. segalanya sudah tersurat.kerana DIA KHALIDMU, maha mengetahui sesuatu, pasti ada sebabnya setiap kisah hidup kalian…
April 14th, 2008 at 2:48 pm
sister halimah, you cannot simply live your husband. be like our former deputy prime minister, anwar ibrahim. to nite his nite 14 april, black monday.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOO9YnYULK0
his wife very good. always help him even her hubby being prison by former prime minster.
do you undersatand what i;m saying? if not, go to hell then, NOW!
April 14th, 2008 at 2:49 pm
Assalamu’alaikum..
buat saudara joe, moga Allah beri hidayah kepada kita semua.
Selawat bebanyak joe.
setakat ko nak marah takde pasal, maki hamun takde gunanya joe.
kalau macam ni ko punya komen, memang patut kena delete.
ko pun mudah2an Allah beri kematangan dulu.
to iskander and family, as the moderator of this website, please alert with the comment like joe and we hope you can delete their comment as soon as possible. Most of us will supporting you iskander. Please ignore the message that just deal with the language and the others nonsense respond.
April 14th, 2008 at 2:51 pm
sister halimah, you cannot simply leave your husband just like that. be like our former deputy prime minister, anwar ibrahim. to nite his nite 14 april, black monday.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOO9YnYULK0
his wife very good. always help him even her hubby being prison by former prime minster.
do you undersatand what i;m saying? if not, go to hell then, NOW!
April 14th, 2008 at 2:59 pm
Assalamu’alaikum handsome.
beri komen macamlah dia hakim mahkamah syariah.
cuba pandang banyak sudut.
perbandingan yang enta buat kurang tepat saya kira.
beradablah dalam berbicara.
May Allah show us the right path of His way.
April 14th, 2008 at 3:11 pm
Assalamualaikum…..buat Puan sekeluarga,semoga tabah menghadapi semua dugaan ini,ingatlah allah maha pengasih lagi maha penyayang.segala duagaan ini pasti ada hikmahnya.Kuatkan semangat,senantiasalah solat dan berdoa padaNya yg satu,mohon agar pintu hati sufiah terbuka untuk kembali semula ke pangkal jalan
Buat Joe,adakah anda seorg muslim sejati,seandainya ya,kenapa nak samakan sebuah keluarga manusia dengan binatang?adakah dlm islam ada ajar kita mencaci sesama kita?Anda mencaci org yg dlm kesedihan dan kesusahan,patutkah itu??????
April 14th, 2008 at 3:52 pm
Salaam.
1st of all, it might be the hot current issue in today’s world.
I’m quite surprised but what can I say is just be patience.
May Allah bless all of us, the Muslims.
I respect Mdm. Halimahton because even though she was living in UK for many years, she still covered up her head with “tudong”, not many people can do such a thing. I’m not blaming you ma’am because you did your responsible as a good mother for five children and as a result, all of your kids are being successful person. Compare to us in Malaysia, like myself, we’ve entered in University at the age of 18 and still facing the difficulties and blur for furthering our study. If I have a chance, I will be one of your student because I am interested with what Iskander and the others had mentioned here.
About Sufi, I think we have to help her. We know that she is doing something wrong which is she booked a ticket to go to hell by doing that sin (I’m sorry for saying this but I have to be honest). Astaghfirullah.
She will listen to her family, and not by us, the anonymous people. I trust Sufi’s family, all of you are the best remedy for her. Insya-Allah. Don’t make the non-muslim people do laugh at us anymore, the muslim. Accept her as usual, as before.
This is life, we face the Up and Down as well. Accept this as Qada and Qadar from Allah. Insya-Allah sooner or later, everything is gonna be alright. Amin.
April 14th, 2008 at 4:20 pm
Hi Iskander,
I guess you had never expected that this is happening; the adverse remarks by some idiotic users. My sympathy to you and your family. I don’t know why it has turned out this way. My advice is that is best that you close this blog, before it gets infected further from such parasites.
But prior to that, allow me to give my piece to them.
Beware of that insidious disease known as ‘negativitis’ (negative thinking). It is as pervasive as the common cold, but far more damaging. It mutilates, cripples, and corrodes the human spirit. Those infected by it like Joe, jang, Melayu Tulen, handsome and other parasites alike are broken men and women aimlessly plodding along. The dark clouds brooding over them obscure their vision and cause them to become confrontational, apathetic, and cynical. Their lives are like flat champagne, without any sizzle. So, how do they inoculate themselves against such a harmful disease? It was only after learning about the horrible effects of smoking that people began to give it up. It may be wise for them to do the same here. HEY GUYS, try reviewing the effects of negativities.
Complaining is worse than doing nothing, for it is digging the rut one is in deeper and deeper. Each time YOU complain, it becomes increasingly difficult to climb out of the ditch YOU’VE created. To loosen the grip of this vicious habit, YOU need to become aware of YOUR complaining, stop it in its tracks, and immediately look for something positive to say. It’s just a matter of replacing a bad habit with a good one.
A negative attitude is self-defeating. YOU won’t find solutions to life’s problems by looking for someone or something to blame. Those who say, “Positive thinking doesn’t work for me,” have got it backwards. It’s not positive thinking that has to work; YOU have to work. For example, YOU have to work at appreciating what YOU have instead of moaning about what you lack.
One characteristic of negative thinkers like YOURSELF is YOUR need to have the world behave according to YOUR wishes. YOU have never grown up and still live with childish demands. Whenever people and the world fail to act according to YOUR selfish wishes, YOU are unhappy. Such a poisonous attitude prevents YOU from growing and learning how to cope with life’s challenges.
Another adverse effect of negativity is that it sets one up for the magic-bullet-syndrome. That is, the victim of ‘negativitis’ spends their time looking for a quick, easy fix, when none exists. By denying a fundamental law of life that states anything worthwhile requires effort to achieve, YOU achieve nothing. YOU won’t make progress until YOU realize that nothing in life is free. YOU’VE got to be willing to do what it takes to get what YOU want.
Also, beware of the fact that negative people like YOU GUYS attract other complainers. Because those who live in a world of doom and gloom alienate others, they have no choice but to look for other negative people to associate with. YOU then feed off one another and get locked in a clique of losers.
Additionally, YOU not only harm YOURSELF; YOU harm the world. YOU cease to make a contribution to it. Instead of helping, YOU spread gloom and misery everywhere. If YOU insist on infecting others, why not infect YOURSELF with laughter? If YOU must carry something contagious, why not carry a smile?
So, I guess people like Melayu Tulen, Joe, jang, handsome and other parasites alike should contemplate on some makeover. YOU GUYS sure do have to clock more mileage in order to catch up with the lost time. Aren’t YOU GUYS aware that YOU are in time tunnel.
Zai – Kota Singa
April 15th, 2008 at 2:16 am
Salam Pn Halimahton’
Pls be stronger n continuous weeping to Our Creator ,Sustainer , Provider and The Most Merciful to all His Creation .Again and again and again and again .NEVER GIVE UP . only HE can fulfill our need ,, Only He can HELP
our doa / support are with u and family
PLs edit/ delete the NONSENSE responds from such typical visitor
Salam
Rockersvets
April 15th, 2008 at 3:34 am
skali lagi saya anjurkan tuan/puan bacalah yasiin buat halimaton & anak-anaknya terutama sufiah. Post saya kelamrin telah dipadamkan, mungkin tak sampai maksudnya dan tak dapat dipahami keluarga halimaton. pahamilah bahawa Surah yasiin itu ibarat Jantung Al Quran. pahala membacanya umpama pahala membaca 10 kali Al Quran. Baca Al Quran, paling tidak surah Yasiin, kelebihannya dapat memudahkan urusan pembacanya dan melembutkan hati orang yang mendengarnya. Niatkan kepada Sufiah supaya dilembutkan hatinya kembali ke Jalan Allah. Doa yang dipost semalam adalah terjemahan doa yang lazim selepas membaca surah yasiin. Kebanyakan post yang dimuatkan di blog adalah post yang kosong jiwa. bawa-bawalah jiwa mendekatkan diri kepada Allah.
Wallahu ‘alam bissawab
April 15th, 2008 at 3:34 am
Assalamualaikum Puan Halimahton. Be patient and keep on praying for your daughter. One day she’ll be back.Recite Yassin as much as you can. Ask from Allah because he is the one who gives you everything.Puan Halimahton i think the best way for you and your family is stay in Malaysia.You still have family here, right?MAybe your children can have a different situation here since they were born in a foreign land. why don’t you show them our beautiful moment in Malaysia.Your genius children also can help our students here in education.
Dear Sufiah,
Think about your mother and your siblings.Call and go back to your mother and ask for forgiveness before its too late.You are so lucky compared to me, you still have a mother to tell everything.
Bye
April 15th, 2008 at 9:34 am
assalamualaikum buat pn halimahton serta anak-anak. 10 tahun lalu, ketika saya menonton sufiah di kaca tv (TV3-Malaysia), saya terasa amat gembira dan bersyukur kerana dia adalah anak kepada rakyat malaysia yg beragama Islam dan berbangsa melayu spt saya. namun hati saya amat hancur dan sedih apabila pada 31 mac lalu semua media tempatan termasuk tv melaporkan kehidupan terkini sufiah. saya cuba menyakinkan diri saya bahawa sufiah sebenarnya teraniaya oleh satu sindiket pelacuran… namun beberapa hari kemudian terpampang lagi berita pengakuan sufiah yang nyata begitu bangga dengan apa yang dilakukannya! untuk meyakinkan lagi diri saya, saya menonton rakaman interview di youtube. demi tuhan, hati saya begitu sebak dan sedih! bagaimana seorang anak yang tampak begitu baik dan sopan jadi begini???seperti yg dikatakan bekas suami sufiah, lebih baik sufiah menjual cerita pun, minta pn sekeluarga bersabar. mungkin ini ujian allah. semoga sufiah akan menemui jalan pulang…….semoga allah membuka hati sufiah sebelum terlambat……… semoga sufiah tahu betapa rakyat malaysia begitu sedih dan berdoa untuk dirinya biarpun dia bukan warga malaysia…….wassalam…….
April 15th, 2008 at 11:52 am
askum my brother iskander. im osman from malaysia. yesterday i send my messages to ur family in Bahasa melayu. but today i saw it you already delete it. Why u delete it? if u didnt understand, let your mum read it first, then your mum will be explained to you. i hope from now if you didnt understand, better you learn bahasa from your mother. then one more thing, not all malaysians can type or know english exactly, like me. You see its other message also from Bahasa melayu, so did u understand it? if yes, why u delete my message. I also sad with your family tragedy. we also give support to your family, even not all of us can type in english..
April 15th, 2008 at 1:42 pm
Hi Osman,
I didn’t delete your messages, and I suspect that the WordPress spam filters must have incorrectly flagged your messages as spam. Sorry about that! And thank you for your support — it’s much appreciated.
Sometimes, it might take a while for your message to appear on the blog because WordPress has requested an admin’s approval before posting the messages. This doesn’t mean that your message has been deleted — it just means that you’ll have to wait for a short time before an admin (i.e. someone in the family) approves your message, just as I did here.
Regards,
Iskander
April 15th, 2008 at 2:39 pm
hi iskander. Assalamualaikum thank u for immediately reply my message, i hope after this i’ll have time to give my support to you and your family. i hope after this you spend a little time to learn bahasa melayu from your mum, because you are muslim, and malay, even maybe u r not malaysian citizen. anyway as a muslim, i fell sad about your family tragedy. even i actually not speaking english frequently, 10 years ago, when sufiah still young, i poud as malaysian because sufiah is a genius woman. now, after i look back about after youtube, i feel very2 sad. Why she destroy herself? I know maybe sufiah still remember all of you. i know she always look up this blog, just she didnt want u or ur family find her. Maybe she think she is a grown woman, can think herself, no need guided from your mother, or all of her brothers and sisters. Iskander. as a brother, as a father have a daughter, i know what your mother feel like now. And i know also all of your family in malaysia also feel said with this tragedy. Maybe she still pressure about her past, about mariage failure. Iskander my brother, i hope all of you dont give up, ask for Allah SWT forgiveness, also for sufiah’s forgiveness. Recriate YASIN, AL Quran everyday, insya Allah, Allah swt will open up sufiah’s heart. Also, ask your mother and all of your performed umrah, Insya Allah any asking will be answered in there. iskander, as a brother, you must give a good example to your brothers and sisters. right now, you are the leader in the family. Guided your mother and all of your family to good path, we all muslims also hope sufiah will be came back to your family, bring new life in Malaysia. You are Imam (leader)right now, remember that.
For Sufiah, if your read our message right now, think it back, did u feel sorry to your mother? She carrying you 9 month, from kid until you a adult. Did you feel what your mother feel right now? You will be became a mother one day, did you think you are free right now, destroy yourself? Remember sufiah, ask for yor mother forgiveness before too late to repent yourself. Listen and look back our messages here. You forgot who you are. Listen your brother, iskander and all your siblings, listen to your mother. You are lucky you still have a mother, not like me, still young i havent a father (my fathers died when perfomed hajj).
for kak halimahton.
alhamdulillah akak begitu tenang dan sabar waktu interbiu di tv3 ari tuh. saya menitiskan air mata mengenangkan nasib akak, berseorangan selepas suami akak buat hal, sufiah pula mencontengkan arang ke muka akak. Saya juga seorang ayah, ada anak perempuan, walaupun saya seorang ayah, tetapi saya juga menyelami perasaan akak. seperti yang saya cadangkan pada iskander tadi, akak jangan putus harap dari rahmat Allah swt, berdoa siang malam, membaca al quran. Akak pergilah bersama-sama family akak pergi menunaikan umrah,disana akak akan temui ketenangan jiwa yang akak cari. insya Allah akak menangislah banyak2, berdoalah banyak2 di di tanah suci, insya Allah doa akak pastinya dimakbulkan oleh Allah swt. Saya dan kami semua semua umat islam insya Allah berdoa setiap masa semoga sufiah kembali ke pangkuan akak. Amin…
April 15th, 2008 at 2:50 pm
Assalamu’alaikum..
From Abu Musa Abdullah bin Qais al-Asha’ari r.a is that the Prophet s.a.w said:
“Allah Almighty will stretch out His hand during the night, turning towards the one who did wrong during the day, and stretch out His hand during the day, turning towards the one who did wrong during the night, until the day the sun rises from the place it set.” (Narrated by Muslim)
April 15th, 2008 at 3:54 pm
slm…
semoga sufiah kembali ke pangkuan keluarga… doa ibu, tiada yg lebih baik darinya
April 15th, 2008 at 4:23 pm
dear iskander,
i just want to know about your others siblings.. how’s their life?? how about the education? i felt sorry for ur sister, sufiah. i hope she will be okay.. we will alwiz supporting u..
April 16th, 2008 at 5:20 am
Iskander & family,
peristiwa sufiah ini membuktikan kepada kita bahawa kasih sayang dan persaudaraan dalam Islam adalah sangat kuat. Walaupun ianya berlaku kepada seorang sufiah, kesedihannya dirasai oleh jutaan umat islam.
(kalau awak tak faham, minta emak awak terjemahkan dan cubalah jawab dalam bahasa melayu).
April 16th, 2008 at 9:57 am
assalamualaikum….. Apabila terdengar kisah sufiah yang kini banyak tersebar di internet-internet, saya berasa cukup sedih..tetapi saya tahu itu semua adalah ujian daripada ALLAH S.W.T…saya juga akan sentiasa mendoakan supaya hati sufiah akan terbuka untuk kembali ke pangkuan ALLAH S.W.T.semoga keluarga sufiah akan sentiasa sabar dan tabah menerima ujian daripada ALLAH S.W.T. sama-samalah kita berdoa untuk sufiah AMIN…… sel_sheva@yahoo.com(0179300363)
April 17th, 2008 at 3:53 am
assalamualaikum…….i hope she will be okay.. we will alwiz supporting u..
.saya juga akan sentiasa mendoakan supaya hati sufiah akan terbuka untuk kembali ke pangkuan ALLAH S.W.T.semoga keluarga sufiah akan sentiasa sabar dan tabah menerima ujian daripada ALLAH S.W.T. sama-samalah kita berdoa untuk sufiah semoga allah membuka hati sufiah sebelum terlambat……… semoga sufiah tahu betapa rakyat malaysia begitu sedih dan berdoa untuk dirinya biarpun dia bukan warga malaysia…….wassalam…….amin…….
April 17th, 2008 at 6:46 am
Assalamualaikum….. Doa ibu dan seluruh umat Islam untuk Sufiah. Kuatkan iman dan InsyaAllah Sufiah akan kemabli ke pangkuan keluarga satu hari nanti. For Yusof family… please be strong..
April 17th, 2008 at 5:57 pm
Assalamu’alaikum..
Alhamdulillah, there are a new hope here..
[i](Segala puji bagi Allah, ada bibit2 harapan baru untuk bantu sufiah di sini)[/i]
http://sufiahyusof.blogspot.com/
We also can support sufiah with make our donation for “Love Sufiah” campaign in http://www.melayu.org.uk/
[i](Kita juga boleh sama-sama membantu sufiah dengan membuat sedikit derma untuk kempen “Love Sufiah” di http://www.melayu.org.uk/ )[/i]
Lets together make a lot of doa to help our sister, Sufiah..
May Allah help us..
Allahummansurna ummata Muhammadin s.a.w..
[i] (Jom sama-sama berdoa untuk bantu saudara kita, sufiah..
Moga Allah bantu kita..
Wahai Allah.. Bantulah kami, demi nisbah kami sebagai ummat kekasihMu s.a.w..) [/i]
April 17th, 2008 at 6:05 pm
Assalamu’alaikum..
Alhamdulillah, there are a new hope here..
http://sufiahyusof.blogspot.com/
We also can support sufiah with make our donation for “Love Sufiah” campaign in http://www.melayu.org.uk/
Lets together make a lot of doa to help our sister, Sufiah..
May Allah help us..
Allahummansurna ummata Muhammadin s.a.w..
…………………….
Segala puji bagi Allah, ada bibit2 harapan baru untuk bantu sufiah di sini
http://sufiahyusof.blogspot.com/
Kita juga boleh sama-sama membantu sufiah dengan membuat sedikit derma untuk kempen “Love Sufiah” di http://www.melayu.org.uk/
Jom sama-sama berdoa untuk bantu saudara kita, sufiah..
Moga Allah bantu kita..
Wahai Allah.. Bantulah kami, demi nisbah kami sebagai ummat kekasihMu s.a.w..
April 18th, 2008 at 9:00 pm
greetings
i am aware of the current news involving your family.
thousands of sympathy will not change anything, and i hereby sincerely ask what can we do to help?
April 19th, 2008 at 3:19 am
Assalamualaikum Pn Halimahtun & family,
After reading this site and watching TV3’s interview with you, my heart goes for you and your family and we shall pray that Allah will grant guidance and blessings for Sufiah and peace be with all of you. It’s a very tough test you are going through as a mother, in fact it’s one of the worst nightmares for any mother. I am a mother of 4 as well and I know how tough it was for you to raise and educate them all on your own in a foreign country. I’ve stayed in Britain and brought up my children there as well but just for a few years. But then , Allah is everywhere and insyaAllah our prayers are being heard no matter where we are. Keep on praying and , without Farook now, you and your children can move on with your lives even better, he is just a past nightmare (and may Allah forgive him too). It’s a matter of time Sufiah will come back to her family. And to Bro Iskander and other siblings, syukur alhamdulillah you have such a strong and dedicated mother like Pn Halimahtun. Just stick together and keep on praying to Allah. It’s every mother’s dream (mine) to be able to personally educate and tutor her own children successfully as she had done.
April 19th, 2008 at 8:28 am
hey iskander..u 21 rite?? same with me..hehe..by the way, y u didn’t keep updating this blog?? are u bz?? i always view ur family’s blog to know the latest news~ reply please…hehe
April 19th, 2008 at 9:22 am
assalammualaikum…
… setinggi tahniah buat pn halimaton yang telah mengharungi ‘ujian’ yang boleh saya anggap terbesar pernah saya ketahui selama 23 tahun saya mengenali kehidupan ini… saya amat kagum bila dapat tahu pn serta ahli keluarga masih lagi dapat menerima sufiah yang ketika ini seusia saya… alhamdulillah… msh ada lagi masyarakat malaysia yang berfikiran seperti ini, sedangkan tindakan sufiah mengaibkan sehingga seluruh dunia gempar dengan berita tersebut, tapi rakyat malaysia yang walaupun hanya sekampung saje yang tahu, namun mereka telah mencerca sehinggakan meraka yang telah insaf serta kesal dengan perbuatan mereka, berputus asa kembali terjebak, serta kembali terjerumus ke lembah maksiat dahulu…
emmm… untuk sufiah yang telah jauh mendahului rakyat malaysia, dengan kejayaan yang di tempa oleh beliau, saya harap sufiah dapat memaafkan kesalahan yang telah lalu, saya faham akan amarah yang sufiah rase kan, tapi ingat lah kita akan tetap dibayangi oleh apa pun yang kite telah buat… saya harap walaupun hidup kite tidak bahagia namun kite masih waras untuk memikirkan apa yang kite akann, dan telah buat… saya sedia memberi nasihat jika diperlukan… ingat kite merancang untuk gagal, tapi kite gagal untuk merancang… untuk pihak midea masa, dan media cetak, saya berharap untuk tidak terus menghimpit keluarga ini yang memeng sedia terhimpit, ini bukan kisah curi balak, curi pasir, atau pun pencemaran alam sekitar. ini tentang maruah seseorang yang perlu di bimbing…. saya memohon maaf sekiranya apa yang saya coret kan ini ada mengusik hati sesiapa pun, insya’allah, kite tetap mendapat keaumpunan Nya… assalammualaikum… jika anda memerlukan nasihat, sila hubungi saya 012-6577950/016-2277311 zul
April 19th, 2008 at 2:39 pm
Hi dila,
Yes, I’m 21. As for why we haven’t updated this blog in a while, we’ve either been busy or just plain lazy.
But seriously, my mum is working on translating the existing posts into Malay; I’m just waiting for her to finish so that I can update the site, as she doesn’t type very quickly! She’s also writing an article or two to address some of the questions people have asked.
Regards,
Iskander
April 19th, 2008 at 6:29 pm
salam to mdm Halimaton, Abraham, Aisha, Iskander and Zuleikha..
BE STRONG…always pray for guidance…insyaallah…
April 20th, 2008 at 2:00 pm
oh..is it?? alrite, GO Pn Halimahton..can’t wait for the new entries..hey, i know that u an expert in IT..i suggest u to learn Bahasa Malaysia (BM)..and Pakistan too..ask Zuleikha too since she is now learning a social skill, arts, etc. kalau boleh, semua belajar la! hehe
p/s: poor sufi, this is all propaganda by Islam enemies..=(
April 20th, 2008 at 10:31 pm
hey there puan H,isk, lik, aisha n abraham.. thank you for initiating this blog. Realy open up my mind, and m sure Malaysians as well. hangin there guys..